Archive for the ‘life’ Category

the illusion of mentoring

Gandalf…Dumbledore…Yoda… fictional icons of wisdom and in the minds of many the epitome of the perfect mentors. The only thing is, they aren’t real. They are part of the fiction that actually inhibits mentoring.

The Ultimate Rebellion

"Ultimately, becoming a Christian was THE MOST REBELLIOUS AND RISKY THING I'VE EVER DONE." After all, "who's the biggest rebel to ever live?" Can you guess who said it?

The Little Thing that Changes Everything: Courage

I have a theory: courage is the sinew that connects our thinking to our behavior. It's not good intentions that get things done, it is courage. We can talk the right talk, we can understand key ideas, and we can have all manner of good ideas, but without courage we won't act on them.

Making Space for God?

Meeting with God is not about what I do to manage my "quiet time," but what I do to quiet the noise inside of me in order to listen. He is the one who fills the space, I need to make the space.

Honor Your Father and Mother…

When I was a kid, honoring my father and mother was a pretty simple concept. It meant obeying them, not talking back, doing my chores without attitude, etc. These days it is a mandate with far more subtlety.

Snowed In for a Sabbath

On those unique days when snowstorms overwhelm the city and life comes to a halt, the unplanned respite from work and regular ritual does something powerful for your soul and your relationships. A sabbath should be just like that.

“God Demolished Me”

We habitually erect superstructures that put us in control and make us feel safe. However, this man-made life stands as an obstacle to the life of intimacy and dependency for which God created us.

Leadership Radar

Everyone knows what radar does. It creates a picture of what is on the horizon. Wise leaders pay attention to their radar.

Life is Long……and fragile

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In spite of the fact that we blaze through the demands of our daily lives at an impatient pace, the truth is, life is long.

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about LEADING

  • Most people spend their lives fighting off the wind and the waves of the ocean. Leaders chart a way through them. aboutLEADING is the personal blog of Gary Mayes and a forum to discuss lessons at the intersection of life and leadership.

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  • The VISION issue of www.noredcapes.com just went live. It features articles and resources to help leaders with the challenges of vision clarification and communication.  (noREDcapes is a journal for leaders that I publish every couple months.)

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